“Everything Changes Once You Have Kids”

Dear Ruby,

Just a quick note to tell you that I wrote another article for Pregnancy After Loss Magazine. It’s called “Everything Changes Once You Have Kids”. In it, I argue that you don’t need to “have kids” to be changed by them.  Your Daddy and I are living proof of that.

Here’s the link in case you wanted to read it:  http://www.pregnancyafterlosssupport.com/everything-changes-kids/

I’ll write more later.

I love you,



3 thoughts on ““Everything Changes Once You Have Kids”

  1. I just read this post on PALS. Thank you for your voice and sharing Ruby with us. I too lost my baby Girl, Naomi Joy, at 26 weeks after a beautiful, healthy, problem-free 6 months with her. I couldn’t agree more with your statement that everything changes the moment you see those two pink lines. I believe that’s when we become Moms. As so many of my friends have recently given birth, I’ve read a lot of comments from people stating that “today you became a MOM” and I have to disagree. I became a Mom the moment I found out I was pregnant, because like you said about Ruby, you love every fiber of their being from the beginning and your life changes as you care for the new life inside your womb.

  2. Thank you for sharing this beautiful blog with me and the other nurses at Sharp Mary Birch. You are 2 very special people – we are honored to care for you and look forward to being there as your continue your journey. Happy Easter- Susan

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